thanks buckandaquarter but the damage has already been done. I guess one bad apple will ruin the whole bushel. a new member comes in with a clean pallet and seeking knowledge from everyone, especially the elders. Since I don't have anyone in my family that hunts, besides me, I seek for guidance and professionalism from others.
there is a thing called "tact" and I guess some people are born with or without it. its like this. would you go up to your wife and call her fat to her face? or would you maybe find a way around that to help her lose weight... like maybe cohering her to join a gym with you.... tact my friends. some have it, others dont