Sorry to hear that dude. Me and my wife just went thru that with her sister who was 52. Her breast cancer went to her liver ,lungs and bones. Hospice is all about taking you out in comfort.=..Drugs.....we did it here at our house because her husband was piece of crap. If you drain the fluid off her belly, it will help but it will also shorten her time. That is if she has the fluid. Im here if you have any questions.