Glad you are telling this story, sorry it happened to you. I was just telling my husband last night that i didn't think i was going to wear the harness. I thought it was going to be a pain in the ass for when i needed to go to the bathroom. I thought since i have a platform with a railing it wasn't really needed. i also thought how am i going to hook up and get up and down. Think i can figure it out after your story. Think i almost had tears when you said "Oh Rose"