yeah i no the feeling, for myself anyway (im only 15, no kids lol)...... personaly i throw away the rachet straps that come w some stands and use the 2 ton yellow ones, i started that after going out to take down a hang on stand this spring and on the spur of the moment steped on to it sorta "testing" it and the strap let loose fortunantly i had the sense to hold on before i stepped onto it and i just swung myself right back over to the limb that i had stood on before stepping onto the stand but it scared me good and i replaced all my straps....... i got a crate of the straps at a garage sale for around 5 bucks so ive got plenty to use